Dear All ,
Why is it ok when a guy cheats because of sexual needs, but not for a woman to do that?

by Carla

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Online social media has become a part of our everyday routine. Whether you’re on twitter, facebook, digg, tumblr, or whatever else, you have access too millions of people including people who are close to you in your own life. The most popular of these sites is facebook which will have 1 billion members before we know it. Facebook is a great way to keep in touch with friends, and keep tabs of your significant other.
Facebook stalking is something that we’re all guilty of. I don’t care if you were checking out the tits of the girl who lives down the hall or pictures of your buddies trip to Mexico, it still probably registers as fb stalking because it never stops there. It may start out just looking at your exes new years pics, but before you know it you 1000 pics in and furious. Now what if you are checking out your current significant others pics and you find something you don’t like? Odds are they were taken in the past before you were official or even in her life at all. But, people can’t help but to feel jealous and pissed off-it’s human nature. If you see a shot of your current girlfriend making out with a guy at a bar, even if it’s 3 years before you met, your mind i going to wander. The best thing to do would be to confront her and ask her to remove it. But don’t forget that there is probably something in your facebook account that you wouldn’t want her to see. Who cares anyway? Especially if it was taken before you met. However, if it’s closer to the time where you started dating ‘when I’d be a little weary.
No doubt you can catch a cheater on facebook. Even if you don’t find a picture on his or her profile, their friend’s may have it untagged in their album. Everyone knows the tricks. It’s nearly impossble to keep secrets now a days. And nothing would be worse than somebody else finding proof that my girlfriend cheated on me. If you think this is far fetched, in a recent article on msnbc, divorce attorneys came out and said:

“The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers says 81 percent of its members have used or faced evidence plucked from Facebook, MySpace, Twitter and other social networking sites, including YouTube and LinkedIn, over the last five years.”

So before you go out and cheat on your significant other, make sure nobody has a camera…a smart phone…a tablet…a netbook.. Actually you’re fucked either way.

What do you think? s it getting harder for cheaters in the age of technology? If you saw compromising pictures of your SO would you confront her or start thinking about cheating to exact your revenge?
Whatever you do just remember- in this day there are always eyes on you…

Let us know what you think at http://cheatconfession.com/blog/2011/01/facebook-stalking-may-cause-trust-issues-and-lead-to-infidelity-and-thinking-about-cheating/

A 3-year-old boy examined his testicles while taking a bath. ‘Mom’, he asked, ‘Are these my brains?’  
‘Not yet,’ she replied.

inherhipstheresrevolutions:

What the fuck. Do I do.

I WANT TO FUCKING PUNCH THE FUCK OUT OF ALL OF THEM. HOLY FUCK WHEN I SEE THEM.

Gutted for them that she left her Facebook signed in. Fucking. Gutted.

It’s tradition that when the clock strikes midnight, moving the needle from New Year’s Eve to New Year’s Day, you find someone to share a New Year’s kiss.

Sometimes it’s a simple peck on the cheek from a relative or friend. Sometimes it’s … well, sometimes it’s a bit more than a kiss from a significant other or someone you just met, but can’t quite remember their name.

Why does this tradition exist? Does anyone know?

There probably isn’t any real reasoning behind it. It’s probably just some crock about good luck in the New Year.

I just find it interesting because it’s both welcoming and exclusionary. It promotes love and companionship and gathering together with those for whom you feel something for those you do not feel something yet. Yet, yet, yet … Yet, what about all those left on the sidelines, watching all those smiley, happy people canoodling and swapping champagne coated kisses? This tradition just magnifies and multiplies the loneliness of those without the warmth of midnight kisses.

They are alone and after the affair they are even more alone and that hole of loneliness deepens as the night progresses into dawn, only beginning to alleviate once the pain and strain of their hangover begins to set in.

As traditions go, though, it isn’t a bad one. It’s celebratory and fun and loving.

But there’s another downside as well. New Year’s Eve is a well known rookie night. It’s a night when people who do not know how to handle their liquor go out to the city or party in the suburbs and drink themselves silly.

Drunk people make bad decisions.

When it comes time to find someone to kiss, a crowd of jumbled, drunk people with blurred vision and lowered inhibitions who don’t really know how to handle themselves may find themselves inside and outsider’s arms. That is to say that New Year’s Eve is a night that has spawned many marital infidelities.

I’m not really sure what my point is. I’m sure many a great romance has started on New Year’s Eve as well, for the exact same reason.

I guess my point is that it’s an odd tradition and one that is oddly human. It’s loving and celebratory and sloppy and beautiful and dangerous and stupid and harmful and wonderful. What more could you ask for? Go out there and get drunk and get laid or get sad or just love the one you’re with.

Happy New Year.

-DangerZone

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Companies selling sex is nothing new. It has been going on for years and years, but now something is happening that is really pushing the limits of selling sex and that is infidelity. In recent history with all of the celerity infidelity/sex scandals we have become more aware and subject to entertainment and ads with the theme of infidelity.
One commercial that has been circulating for a while now is a Twix commercial that refers to cheating and infidelity. You know, the one where a couple is in the coffee shop and the wife (or girlfriend) reads a text on her husband’s (or boyfriend’s) phone that’s from “Teri”. He then looks dumb founded and takes a moment to think and blurts out that Teri is his boss and all is forgotten and forgiven…
Twix Cheater Cmmercial
We get it -they are trying to sell their product, but what else are they trying to convey?? That in a pinch, with just a little time to think and a chocolaty snack in your belly you will think of a fool proof lie so you wont get caught cheating ? Now I don’t think Twix wants to be known as the candy bar for the guy who’s thinking about cheating, but I do think they were trying to take advantage of the trend in marital infidelity especially amongst celebrities. Do I think this kind of branding and advertising is wrong? Hell no! It’s been going on for years. The company needs to stay socially relevant and if this is the way that it needs to do so then so be it. It will be interesting to see what other companies do to stay relevant with the changing times in entertainment and society.

cheaperthanacupofjoe:

1. Laugh. 

2. Say “Hold on, I think I just lost my contact lens,” just as the coffin is about to be closed. 

3. Play Fruit Ninja, with the sound on. 

4. Ask the widow if the will could be read first because you’d like to beat the traffic. 

5. Use your iPhone to blog about things you shouldn’t do at a funeral. 

I recently was wandering around a local bookstore when I noticed a book titled Love and Sex with Robots by David Levy on sale for only $2. Given the title and price tag, I just had to buy it.

At first I was embarrassed to carry it around assuming that the natural reaction of anyone seeing it would be, “You want to f*ck robots?”

But then I realized: you know what? I do want to f*ck a robot.

Let’s face it, f*cking a robot would be awesome. How many scifi/fantasy things can you actually f*ck? Let’s run through the list:

You can’t f*ck a zombie.

You can’t f*ck a werewolf. Well, I guess you can, but it’d be a pretty hairy situation three days out of the month after the affair. Eh, that’s much not different from dating a regular lady, I guess. And talk about clear cut signs of an affair if you happen to be cheating with one; what with the bite marks and shedding. But for most of the time, they are just a regular person.

Wookie: same problem as the werewolf, but all the time.

Bigfoot: See wookie (although, he’s probably pretty hung. Just sayin’. If Ron Jeremy can get laid, bigfoot can).

Vampires are more for the ladies. I imagine it’d be rather cold anyway.

Mermaid … ew. It’d basically be like f*cking a fish, but you could get a beej from one.

A Frankenstein: A lot of the same problem of the zombie. Not nearly as bad, but you’re still f*cking a dead thing.

Aliens … aliens could work, but you better hope for a humanoid one. Aliens can get pretty unsuitable for our parts. Hell, sticking any part of your anatomy into any part of theirs could be incredibly painful or even lethal. So, that’s a good one, but you’ve got to be careful.

Centaur: Why are you even bringing this one up? It’s like a land mermaid. The top half may be smokin’, but the downstairs presents a set of problems that say you’re not going to want to look yourself in the mirror for a loooooooooong time.

Unicorn: I fully support this. What? You don’t know, it could give you magical powers. Isn’t that worth taking one for the team to find out?

Witch/Wizard: This one you can do, but it’s not that different from a normal human and you’ve got to be careful about the aftermath. Do not piss off people who control magic. See how fucking a unicorn can come in handy now?

Cyborg: It’s halfway to a robot, so I guess if the robot sexnology doesn’t get to safely f*ckable levels in time this will be a nice go between.

Klingon: I guess you could, but I wouldn’t suggest it.

Whatever the hell Milla Jovovich was in The Fifth Element: HELL YES!

So yea, I want to f*ck a robot. Deal with it.

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